How to Become the Most Popular Escort in Australia
When you chose to become an escort in Australia, you probably did not worry too much about how to draw clients because sex sells itself. But getting established is one of the trickiest parts of the job for many women. Unlike prostitutes who take their wares to the streets, you want to advertise your skills in a more private and professional way. Because you are offering more than just sex, you are offering companionship, attention, and a wonderful time.
But you cannot really put out an advertisement in the yellow pages anymore or in the newspaper either. The problem is, it is an offense to advertise sexual services in places like New South Wales, Victoria, Western Australia, and Tasmania as well as many other areas. Therefor, it is better to find a service online and post your profile on there. You can post on more than one to get more business but be careful or you will have too many calls and may need an assistant to help you with scheduling. In the meantime, here are some tips to get you started.
Get Some Professional Photos
The first thing to do is to take some good photos of yourself for your profile. This does not mean that you need a bunch of X-rated nudies. Just get some high-quality pictures of yourself in seductive poses wearing some cute lingerie or bikinis. Or they can even be photos of you in full dress. A beautiful woman in a low-cut glamorous gown is a major turn-on for a lot of men. In fact, most high-class men would rather not see the whole package. If they wanted porn, they could watch porn.
If you do not want someone else taking your photos or cannot afford a photographer, there are plenty of phones with good photo apps now. Try them out and you can probably get some awesome shots on your own. Or get one of your girlfriends to help you. Don’t forget to set up the background. Whether you want to portray it to be romantic, sultry, or fun, there is always a way to hang some things behind you to set the mood. Or let the app help you with that.
Don’t forget that you want the images to look like you, so don’t do too much editing. It is okay to fix a few blurry spots but don’t try to make yourself look like someone you aren’t. Remember, you will be meeting with these clients, and they will not be very happy if you don’t look anything like the photos you posted. Be honest and up-front or things will not turn out well. These men are paying top dollar to get a date with you so they will not be very happy if you are using doctored photos.
If you do decide to use nude photos, don’t show too much. There are some things that need to stay a mystery. There is a reason that hookers do not walk around naked. It is better to leave some things to the imagination, so they have something to look forward to. You can do nudes but blur out the XXX parts or place your hands or something else over that area. Leave them wanting to see more.
Smile and Enjoy Yourself
One thing you should not cover is your smile, though. If you are like most women, you have probably quit your 9-5 job to do this one because it is much easier and pays a lot better. You can make your own schedule and choose your own clients. That is why women who become escorts love their jobs, which is why being happy is usually not a problem. Of course, everyone has a bad day.
If you are having a bad day, shake it off before you head for your date. Remember, this is all about pleasure. You are going there to spend the next hour or so making this man’s dreams come true so relax and put a smile on your face. Whether he is looking for the whole girlfriend experience or just a quickie, he expects you to make him feel like you are truly enjoying yourself. Besides, sex is pleasurable if you are doing it right, so you should be enjoying yourself too.
Stay in Shape
Since your body is your main sales tool, you have to keep it in good condition. Some women start out when they are young and fit, but start getting soft and “comfortable” after a few years of fancy dinners. It is a good idea to stay in shape by working out at home or joining a gym with your friends. Sure, some people are lucky enough to stay in shape without having to do anything, but not many. It is okay to indulge in good food and drink as long as you are working it off.
Another thing to remember is to keep everything else in good condition. Getting a manicure and pedicure along with your eyebrows done regularly is a big help so you don’t have to do it all yourself. A bikini wax is also a nice way to keep that area neat and tidy. Getting your legs waxed would also not be a bad idea. When you are being touched all over, it is best to be nice and smooth.
Be Confident in Yourself
Even if you are new to this job, you have to have a high level of self-esteem to be a successful escort in Melbourne. Men find confidence alluring and love it when women take charge of the situation. You need to know that eyes are on you when you walk into a room and enjoy it! Be ready for anything and stand up for yourself if you need to. Don’t ever let anyone take advantage of you.
One of the ways that men test you is to see if they can get away with doing things they know they aren’t supposed to do. They may ask to have sex without a condom or try to get you to lower your rates. Don’t let them get their way, or they will think you are a pushover. Not only does that make him believe he can get his way with you, but he will lose respect for you as well.
Losing respect can also mean losing some of the passion, too. Men don’t find women as attractive if they are too easy to get over on. Remember, you are in charge, and what you say is what goes. Even though you are there to please him, you are the boss.
Have Enough Sex Appeal
You do not have to be the most beautiful woman to be the most alluring. Sex appeal and desirability are what really matter. Having a soft, sultry voice, shy looks, suggestive smiles, and a sexy walk with swaying hips is usually a good start, but it also helps to have a slightly seductive scent, the right clothing, and a flirty personality.
If you do this right, your client will be horny before you even make it to the bedroom. Just having a conversation in a public place with them can stir up enough sexual tension to make both of you ready to explode. That is what makes sex appeal so important. The right companion can get her client so worked up that he is ready to go without her even touching him. Just like you felt when you were on your first date with your first boyfriend.
Figure Out What You Want to Offer
If you are not already familiar with what men want in the bedroom, do some research. There are a variety of things that they may ask for, so be aware of what they may come up with. That is why you need to decide beforehand what you will and will not do. Make sure it is clearly stated on your profile those things that you are not willing to do.
For example, BDSM is something that many men will ask for, so if you are not willing to do that, be sure to put that on your profile. Other things you may want to mention that you may not want to do are anal play, blow jobs, bondage, and threesomes.
But if you are offering unique services, be sure to advertise that loud and clear. Since there are not as many escorts who do these things, you want to make sure they know that you are one of those who do. If you do this at a better price than other escorts, let everyone know that as well.
Even if you don’t want to offer anything kinky, try something else like a special massage or maybe a bottle of wine. You could also give them a free extra hour after paying for a certain number of hours. Or have a unique way of providing certain sexual techniques that other women don’t offer. Maybe give special birthday dates with cake or ice cream. Be creative.
Make Your Prices Right
Choosing what to charge can be difficult because when you are first starting out, you want to charge less to get more bookings. But you don’t want to be too inexpensive, or they will wonder why you are so cheap. Also, you need to make money. At first, it is good to charge enough to pay for the ad and make some money that will make it worth your while as far as transportation and clothing expenses.
After about six months, you will probably have plenty of clients and may need to raise your rates. As you do this, change your ad completely with new photos and wording to draw new clientele. You may find that you know more about the job and want to offer more (or different) services. Australian escorts charge anywhere from $200 to $5,000 per hour, so your prices can vary quite a bit.
Don’t Forget to Be a Good Companion
Besides sex, you also have to be a good companion. When you meet these men, you are not going to just go straight to bed. You will likely meet in a public place and talk a bit before heading to the place where you will get more intimate. During this time, whether you are having a drink or just enjoying each other’s company, it is important to be able to have good communication skills.
Giving them the full girlfriend experience is one thing that they usually want, which means that they want to be caressed and pampered, kissed and massaged like a good girlfriend would do. Complimenting him on his looks, how nice he smells, and his choice of clothing is also a good idea. If he is a man who likes to talk, be sure to listen too. Don’t try to monopolize the conversation or push him into sex talk instead. Let them know that you are interested in his mind as well as his body.
It is also good to make them feel like they are the most important person in your world right at that time. They need to feel important, and this is their time. They paid for this time, and they expect for you to make them feel like they are the only person on the planet for at least an hour. Pamper them and let them get rid of their problems, vent, and tell you how their day was.
Don’t Be Too Available
Even though you want to have plenty of work and need the money, you do not have to be available every single time a client asks for a date. Make yourself look busier by saying no once or twice. If you have a regular client who calls every week but does not set that date in advance, tell him no and let him know that he should set a weekly date if he wants a date every week. Let him know that you have other dates that come up.
Using “Top-Rated” or “Exclusive” when you make your profile can help clients understand that they need to book in advance. Even if it costs you one date, it may give you a nice steady income of several hundred dollars a week that will help out in the long run. If he really wants to see you that bad, he will wait.
Don’t Share Too Much
While you are on a date, do not get too personal. Never give them your personal information like where you live or who your family and friends are. Do not tell them anything about your home life. If you have a boyfriend or husband, NEVER mention that! No man wants to think that you are going home to another man. In fact, don’t even use your real name. Don’t drive your own car. And never take them home with you!
You should also never talk about your complaints or problems. This date is about your client. Not about you. Spend this time concentrating on listening to them, concentrating on them, and pleasing them. Give them your undivided attention because that is what you are getting paid to do, and make sure they feel like you are having the time of your life. Unrushed and enjoyed. Do not act like you are in a hurry to get out of there.
Advertising Yourself
To get these clients, you need to have a profile that stands out from the rest. You don’t have to be the most beautiful or the one with the best prices. In fact, you don’t even have to have the most exciting photos or services. What you do have to do is advertise the best. Have quality photos with clear and precise information that is easy to understand. Nobody wants to have to read a book to know who you are. Make it short and easy to read for anyone, and don’t make the photos too explicit.
Make it Unique
However, you do want your profile to be unique. Make it stand out from the others by using a certain vivid color or wearing a special costume. You could also use a nickname that makes you different from all the other escort in Sydney. Anything that gets clients to look at you instead of anyone else is what you want to do.
Be Honest
One of the most important things to remember when writing your profile is to be honest. This includes everything from your photos to your description. Don’t doctor your images because you want them to look like you. Also, let them know if you are older, a little overweight, or have any other physical issues that may not show up in the images. Remember that your clients will be seeing you up close and personal, so they need to know ahead of time what you really look like.
Prepare for a Review
Many men leave reviews after a visit with an escort. But a lot more of them seem to leave reviews when they are negative than when they are positive. This may be because those who have positive experiences don’t even think about it. But those who have a negative experience want to complain. That is why it is best to make sure that you do not give any of your clients any reason to complain.
Once you get a negative review on your profile, it is hard to get clients to see you as positive. You can always work with the client to see what the problem is or talk to the site to get the review removed if possible. But it is better to keep it from happening in the first place. The easiest way to do that is to keep them happy. Never lie to them, always treat them like they are the only person on the planet and keep yourself in top condition.
Of course, there are always those who complain no matter what you do. The only thing you can do for them is be nice and try to placate them. But do not be too nice. Either way, as long as you did what you were supposed to do, they should be happy.
In the End
Becoming the most popular escort girl in Melbourne may not be easy, but it can be done. Follow the steps and keep your profile up to date, be nice to the clients, and advertise yourself well. Try to stay in shape and healthy, both physically and mentally. Don’t spend all of your time working. Enjoy some other hobbies with friends and family to keep your mind busy.
Being an escort is one of the most exciting jobs in the world, and it can be fun and lucrative as well. You make your own hours, have no boss to answer to, and don’t have to worry about what to wear to work. Your job is stylish, professional, and mysterious, too. Enjoy it, and you will go far using these techniques and tips.